This Is True and Sincere Love!
We usually feel it immediately whether it is love or not. Nevertheless, we humans unfortunately have a strong tendency to put our wishful thinking into the foreground rather than the ugly truth. Relationships either work out for both sides or they don't work out at all. Simple rule of thumb: If it feels better with a partner than without, then you are in the right boat. This boat of your dreams can then take you into the future together. If you want to know for sure, the following signs will give you clear indications that your love is real and true.
1. Both sides are fully dedicated to this relationship
Dedication is the key word here. It always sounds a bit like raising the white flag. But in fact, dedication means to fully engage in this wonderful experiment called love. It often happens that that only one half of the whole is giving 100%. These partners often don't want to accept for a long time that they shoulder most of the burden of the relationship work, while their perceived better halves are only the beneficiaries of their efforts. If a relationship is to have a real future, the giving must always balance out. It is not only unfair and disrespectful to be passive and not want to contribute anything. This attitude also clearly demonstrates that the people who are clearly unwilling to contribute do not really care about this partnership.
2. You give each other freedom
Love is a product of freedom. This sentence cannot be emphasized often enough in the context of romantic or passionate relationships. Those who want to own the other person with all their might, kill love and often leave no way out but separation. Statistics also make a clear statement here. According to these statistics, couples stay together longer if they not only maintain common circles of friends and hobbies, but also spend quality time apart. Bad habits such as stalking on social media or suspiciously checking smartphones and e-mail accounts also do not contribute to the success of a relationship. Love is successful when it can spread and unfold, grow and blossom to its heart's content. For this, it needs a long leash or, even better, none at all. Those who have to imprison and dominate their partners in order to assure themselves of their love have never possessed it.
3. There are no strings attached to your love
Love only works in the long run if it doesn't have to fulfill a catalog of demands. If you're looking for a deal or an exchange, you should look around in business life, not on the love front. Only when the "you" or at least the "we" becomes more important than the "I" in a relationship can one speak of true love. But be careful, of course, because equal rights still apply here to both sides. But this is not to be understood in such a way that both partners then bring in their demands and expectantly negotiate their conditions. The keyword is unconditional. Only when there are no "ifs and buts" dictating the deep emotions are they genuine and may then grow. As soon as a price tag is attached to a relationship, it is definitely not love. When we have to fight constantly to be respected and heard, interpersonal relationships become toxic. Caring is then weighed against each other, and arguments are played against each other. Lightness disappears never to be seen again. Anything that veers toward coercion, ultimatums or business models has no place in the field of dreams.
4. You would choose each other again every time
True long-term marriages and relationships do not need to renew their vows before God and the world. These ceremonies are for the public and serve another branch of the billion-dollar wedding industry. Couples who are sincerely devoted to each other and love each other dearly decide again and again almost every day to continue spending their lives together. All it takes is a look in each other's eyes, a hug, or holding hands. Silent agreement about having made the right decision once is expressed, among other things, in celebrating this decision again and again. Anniversaries or wedding anniversaries are important for this reason and for no other. They show how far the common path has already taken this partnership and provide an occasion to discuss and plan for the future. As long as both are still involved, this love can count itself among the steadfast and promising.
5. You can trust each other completely
True love understands and knows everything. Whether it also has to forgive everything is another matter. At the beginning of a new relationship, we can quickly recognize its quality by the communication that does or does not exist in it. For example, if there are topics that are completely taboo for a partner, we should urgently question this denial. There is nothing mysterious or intriguing about blank spots on the relationship map. On the contrary, they should make us think twice. And vice versa, we should be able to confide in our better halves everything that is on our minds. Those who condemn us or even laugh at us and ridicule us for what we think and feel are not really in love with us. However, trust goes much deeper than that. Indeed, if jealousy and ugly scenes are commonplace, things are not going to last. Spying on your loved one on social networks and secretly searching your cell phone for telltale messages doesn't show love, or even affection or appreciation.
Today's Conclusion: Love speaks with actions, not words
From these 5 points, you can already see how love reveals itself when it is genuine. Beautiful words on paper are not enough to show it. It lies in the magic of every moment together, every day and every action that we take selflessly and without ulterior motives. Loving and being loved must always take place in balance. An unbalanced relationship is not a relationship, but a compromise, and this is not what love seeks. It wants complete devotion, unconditional trust, a common vision of the future and openness in all situations. It does not appreciate taboos, secrets and suspicion. If your life feels better with a partner than without, you have found true love. That's it for today. Thanks very much and see you soon.