Clear Signals That SOMEONE Has Strong Feelings for You!
There are very few people who can talk about their feelings like they can talk about the weather forecast. In fact, most of us would probably rather bite our tongues than look into the hand we’re dealt when it comes to romance. Instead, we prefer to look deep into the eyes of our objects of desire and hope for telepathic communication. Love and affection are two beautiful things, but they require a lot of effort and tactics before we can finally seal the deal and ride off into the sunset together. In this article, we introduce you to seven rather unassuming behaviors that can say "I love you" without words and mean it.
1. They’re like a magnet to you.
When we find a person pleasing, we want to spend as much time as we can in their presence. Like moths to a flame, we find him or her magically attractive and simply irresistible. Especially in matters of love, we are extremely creative and inventive when it comes to achieving our desires. We find possibilities, invent excuses and use every opportunity to see her or him. Suddenly, we're interested in sports, get involved in volunteer work, or seek out places where no amount of money in the world would have taken us before. What matters is simply being close to the center of our own personal universe. So if you notice that someone suddenly keeps crossing your path and entering your orbit, be alert, there may be a romantic intent behind it.
2. Always there, always time.
People who at least like us or maybe even feel more for us will never leave us out in the cold. They always have an open ear for our problems, are immediately there with advice and action and will never refuse us their help. If you have such a person in your life, be thankful and appreciate them. Of course, it would be wrong for you to exploit this weakness for your own benefit, because karma has a particularly watchful eye on actions that take advantage of other people's feelings.
3. Look as far as the eye can see.
It can be quite irritating when complete strangers can't take their eyes off us. Strictly speaking, of course, we should be flattered. Our eyes linger on beautiful people and beautiful things, not the repulsive and the ugly. So if you notice in someone around you that she or he can't take their eyes off you, there's pretty sure romance involved. By the way, in this case you also notice right away whether these ambitions are welcomed by you or not. Comfortable goosebump feelings means "yes, I’m interested" while a creepy cold shiver running down your spine every time you make eye contact is not a good sign.
4. Things always seem to go unspoken.
Friendships are not the worst foundations to build a love relationship on. However, it can become complicated and difficult if the love is felt only on one side and is not reciprocated. Many people therefore delay a confession of love as long as possible. That’s difficult, however, if one constantly meets the love interest and has to behave normally. When our hearts are overflowing, it's sometimes hard for our mouths to shut up. We then either talk crazy like a lovesick teenager or decide to do the complete opposite and fall silent more often than average. In the latter case, however, our counterpart soon notices that there are unspoken things in the room like the proverbial elephant. So if you often feel that a message intended for you is not being delivered, its content may be of a romantic nature.
5. Your opinion matters.
Most people give their opinion without being asked because they think it's indispensable. We are all the more delighted when someone specifically asks us for ours. It shows us that we are important, but also that we are competent and have a certain amount of experience they value. When someone asks you specifically about certain topics, you feel appreciated, honored, and possibly even secretly loved.
6. Nice surprises and caring gestures.
Is there perhaps a caring co-worker who always brings you a coffee or buys you ice cream in the summer without you asking them? Do you have a neighbor who neatly places your packages and mail on your doorstep? Or does the nice person at the supermarket always give you an extra smile? Gestures don't have to be heady or earth-shattering to symbolize deep meaning. We humans are inherently rather frugal with our affection. At least, most of us give it out in small doses. Small gifts are nothing more than one of the five languages of love. It means someone wants us to accept the gift and hopes our feelings will lead in the same direction. However, nice gestures of attention are not to be confused with an attempted bribe. The expectation will be there unconsciously, but the giver does not expect a real return on his investment. True love, as we know, does not seek its advantage.
7. Charming advances and perky attempts at flirtation.
Of course, at some point our biology wants to go on the attack when we have feelings for someone. Even those people who have a great deal of discipline and self-control eventually come out of hiding. A genuine broad smile that reaches the corners of the eyes, slightly dilated pupils, and the irresistible urge to flirt are the logical consequence of romantic feelings, even if they are kept in check. The one or other bawdy remark will also cross our lips in the process, and we scatter roses and compliments non-stop. Whatever our heart, our soul and our mind desire, must at some point come to light. Facial expressions, gestures and cheeky innuendos with clear intent are the best channels for this.
Today’s Conclusion
He loves me, he loves me not. Unfortunately, for something as complex and complicated as our love life, there is no patent remedy and no manual that can be used when needed. Most of us stumble into our relationships more by accident than by design. Sometimes, thank God, higher powers have their fingers in the pie, otherwise humanity would probably have died out long ago. Revealing one's feelings is a difficult feat that comes at the sacrifice of pride, but also with the fear of being hurt. Only when we are quite sure do we dare to step forward. Of course, it is easy to say that it is better to know the truth than to dream a mirage, but when the consequences of unrequited love have repercussions on our whole life, we prefer to remain silent, if there’s any doubt. The seven behaviors just mentioned are perhaps at least a hint. If there is reciprocated love, it is worth following up. If not, at least it'll be easier to avoid it and not inadvertently reinforce false hopes. That's it for today.