Don’t Waste Your Time! Do Not Have a Relationship With ANYONE Who Does These Things!

Choosing the right partner is one of the most important decisions you’ll ever make in your life. You only live once and the quality of your love relationship plays a major role in determining the quality of your life. It is obvious that your partner is the person with whom you’ll probably spend the most time. It is all the more important that this person be good, and good to you. You should therefore make sure that the person with whom you are entering into a serious relationship has good intentions and enriches your life. Otherwise, in the worst case scenario, you might regret wasting your precious life with someone who makes your life unnecessarily difficult. Therefore, make sure you never get into a serious relationship with a person who does the things we’ll discuss in this article.

1. Refusal to discuss the workday or life on the job.

You might think that "how was your day" is an easy question to answer. However, there are some people who like to maintain secrecy about every aspect of their personal life. Of course, it's okay if your new flame does something on their own without you. But it's definitely a warning sign if this person refuses to tell you what they have been doing when away from you. This is a behavior that should definitely make you think. After all, how can you trust a partner who won't even talk openly about how he or she spends their days?

2. He does not protect you.

If you are a woman, you should never choose a man who doesn't protect you from the big and small things in life. It is the small gestures that reveal if he is really interested in you. Does he protect you when other people attack you? Does he make sure you get home safely after a date? Does he try to comfort you when you’re sad? No? Then you shouldn't bother with this person any longer. Protection of one’s wife (or girlfriend) and family is a male genetic characteristic. A man who is truly in love with you wants to protect you from the rest of the world. If the man you're dating doesn't have this natural instinct, you’d be better off breaking up the relationship.

3. You are not attracted to the person.

This point is so obvious that you might think that it's not worth mentioning. Far from it. It's tempting to get involved with someone who is, quite simply, nice. So nice that you think it must work. But nice alone is unfortunately not enough. An essential part of a relationship is mutual attraction. If this attraction is missing, even if only from one side, then the relationship has bad prospects from the beginning and you should think twice before wasting your valuable time.

4. You’re not treated as your partner’s priority.

You deserve a person by your side for whom you are number 1. Your partner doesn't have to neglect his or her relationships with friends and family, of course, but you should be the number one priority. However, if your partner is struggling to make time for you once a week, that's a warning sign. Does it seem that your partner has not made you his or her priority? Then you are right to be disappointed. Because no matter what the circumstances are, you should always be able to make time for your love.

5. The ex-partner still preoccupies him or her.

Everyone has a past and so your date will probably also have an ex-partner. But if your date constantly mentions his or her ex, then there's a good chance that your date still isn't over that relationship. You deserve to get your partner's full attention and don't need to share it with the ex. So break it off.

6. Your partner wants to keep everything under the radar.

If you've been seeing someone for a few months, yet this person declines introducing you to his or her friends and family as a boyfriend or girlfriend, then this is not a good sign. This is because it usually means that the person is not quite sure yet, or just doesn't want to commit to the relationship. Although one should not build up too many expectations, or even exert pressure in a relationship, especially in the initial phase, a clear commitment can very well be expected after a certain time. If this is not the case, then don’t waste your time.

7. Flirting with others.

There are people who will flirt with others even in the presence of his or her partner. Even if it is just a harmless flirtation, such behavior is not only brazen, but also directly degrading to you. Can you really trust a person who hurts you this way? Would you be surprised by future cheating? I think you know the answer.

8. Rejection of your family and friends.

Alright, in-laws can be quite a pain sometimes. But if your new partner really loves you, he or she will gladly put up with that too. However, if your partner constantly speaks negatively about your family and friends, this is also a sign of lack of respect for you. Such a situation can cause a lot of discord in your life. These are negative energies that you certainly don't need.

9. Measuring with double standards.

If your partner likes to go out with friends, but expects that you should just wait for him or her at home, this is a typical example of double standards. What applies to your partner should also apply to you, and vice versa. If this is not the case, something is completely wrong and you should seriously consider whether you want to be in such a relationship.

10. You are less interesting than their phone.

Some people protect their phone as if it were a sanctuary. Every chance they get, their attention is focused on the screen. If you ask them what they're up to, they'll be cagey and hide their sanctuary from the eyes of others. It’s obvious that a person exhibiting such behavior has something to hide. Besides, when more attention is paid to a cell phone than to you during a romantic dinner, prospects for the future of this relationship are very dim. Don’t waste your time: put an end to it. That's it for today.