THESE Qualities Make You More Attractive Than You Think!

People's interest in psychology is generally very high. Almost everyone is eager to better understand their fellow human beings and to improve their own influence or effect on them. Therefore, research in the field of attractiveness is particularly popular. After all, who doesn't want to exert a special attraction on other people and receive numerous offers for friendships and relationships? Who doesn't like to be the center of attention and be admired? To help you in this area of your personality development, in this article we're going to introduce you to eight characteristics that, according to psychological research, make you look particularly attractive.

1. Accessibility

The common saying that "If you want to be valued, make yourself hard to get," is not true. These days, most people spend so much time unsuccessfully trying to reach other people, that an approachable person becomes a nice change of pace. We're all looking for someone who will be there for us both physically and emotionally when we need them, so you'll seem significantly more attractive if you bring those qualities to the table. Of course, you don't have to be on call 24 hours a day, but you should also not postpe responses for hours. You would also eventually stay away from such a person.

2. Individuality

Many people try to hide aspects of their individuality and personality in order to seem to be normal, so to speak, and not stand out from the crowd. However, with this approach you can simply disappear into the sheer mass of people. After all, there are almost 8 billion of us. Above all, it is our peculiarities and little quirks that distinguish us from other people, and such aspects make us attractive. A person with his or her own personality stands out from the crowd and is therefore not only particularly interesting, but also particularly attractive.

3. Self-Confidence

According to studies, there is one trait that is more attractive than anything else: self-confidence. That's because when you're comfortable in your own skin and know your personal worth, people notice. You will automatically behave differently. Your posture changes as well as your facial expressions and gestures. If you are confident, you attract everyone's attention when you enter a room and don't hide in a corner. Other people are usually attracted to confident people because they feel comfortable in their presence and also want to get some of their shine. Their charisma and easy-going nature also helps with this.

4. Intelligence

The intelligence trait comes as a bit of a surprise. But there's a reason why it boosts your attractiveness as well. A team of psychologists has found out that people are attracted to people who are a little bit more intelligent than themselves. Blame it on the deep and interesting conversations you can have with such a friend or partner, as well as new perspectives to be gained in various subject areas. However, there is also a catch. If you appear to be too intelligent, you give your counterpart the impression that they can't keep up, and that in turn makes you unattractive.

5. Passion

Passion is a personality trait that plays a central role in most romance novels for a reason. This is because passionate people have certain characteristics that are very attractive to others. One of these is their enthusiasm. Passionate personalities pursue a clear goal, which they always have in mind, and at the same time they take pleasure in it, which gives them drive. They are not listless, but manage to motivate themselves and do not let themselves be diverted from the goal they are striving for. Moreover, passionate people are usually not as indecisive as others. And who hasn't been driven up the wall by indecisiveness? Such people know exactly what they want and they fight for it. The things that are important to them encourage them to excel and if you manage to become important to such a person, he will do everything for you as well. Their big dreams and even bigger hearts fuel optimism in us that we might not otherwise have, and that's why passionate people are so attractive.

6. Kindness

This is another point where a common misconception seems to stand in our way, namely that being a friendly, nice person automatically lands you in the so-called friend zone. Thanks to psychological studies, however, it is now clear that this is not true. When people get to know each other, they are automatically attracted to the people who treat them nicely and not to those who behave in an unfriendly manner. At the end of the day, we're just looking for a friend or partner who will treat us the way we deserve to be treated.

7. Behavior

As we already know, our attractiveness is by no means solely dependent on our looks. Our behavior has a particularly large influence on whether someone finds us attractive or not. Even the smallest things can make all the difference. Do you wear clothes that fit you well and underline your personality, in which you visibly feel comfortable? Do you stand with your back bent over, or upright? Do you smile a lot, or do you hold back on that? These are all factors that make the difference in attracting others. A stranger needs only a few seconds to judge whether you are likable or not. And only your behavior will allow you to change this impression. So you can say: pay attention to your behavior and you will immediately seem more attractive.

8. A Strong Sense of Humor

For most people, a strong sense of humor is a quality that their ideal partner should definitely have. The ability to make others laugh is not only a sign of creativity and intelligence, but above all, someone like that creates a good atmosphere around us. Surely you have noticed that you feel more comfortable in the presence of people with whom you can laugh a lot and boisterously. And this is exactly what makes humorous people attractive and appealing. In research on this topic, a difference has also been noticed. Men tend to look for women who can be easily made to laugh and can also be amused by more specific jokes, whereas women are more attracted to men who can make them laugh.

Today’s Short Conclusion

All in all, the fact is that you definitely have an impact on how attractive you appear. No one can really do anything about their looks, but they can definitely do something about their appearance and behavior. So you're not forced to stand on the sidelines forever, as long as you feel comfortable in your skin and behave in a way that makes other people feel good in your presence. You radiate what you think about yourself, so think good things about yourself and love yourself. Others will sense that and share your feelings about yourself. That's it for today.