HOW to Tell If People Feel Magically Drawn to YOU!
Sparks don't have to fly. Attraction speaks many languages, just like love. However, if you hope and wait for your beloved to be standing in front of the door with red roses and reciting poetry under the balcony, you will unfortunately often be disappointed in real life. Fear of rejection plays just as much a role as uncertainty as to whether the other person feels as attracted as you do. But nature has a few tricks up its sleeve that signal to us without many words or grand gestures that someone is attracted to us. In this article, we'll introduce you to seven clear signs that people are magically drawn to you.
1. They turn toward you in conversation.
We can't help it. When we find someone attractive, we literally hang on his or her every word. Of course, we can't do that literally, so we do the only thing we can: We get as close to our counterpart as is acceptable in that situation. Whoever is sitting at the table or bar with you and turns in your direction is clearly interested in you. By the way, it's not a bad sign if your legs are crossed in the process. As long as the tips of the toes point in your direction, the rest of your counterpart has you clearly in focus. If you can, look her deep in the eyes. Dilated pupils are a clear sign that here more than just friendship is desired
2. They use every opportunity to touch you
Again, we are simple-minded by nature. When we find a person attractive, we want to touch them, preferably every second. Unfortunately, since this is not a socially accepted form of communication between strangers, we look for excuses and favorable opportunities to make physical contact with them. Some solid, old-fashioned manners can offer some advantages here, at least for the men. Helping the lady into her coat is certainly a classic, as is a shared umbrella. But also reaching out a hand in certain situations, gently touching the back when danger threatens, or grabbing the wrist while looking at a watch or lighting a cigarette offers wonderful opportunities here. Although dancing in the classical sense has unfortunately had its day, it originally had only one purpose: to enable socially acceptable touching of the two sexes. Of course, you can also remove imaginary lint from their shoulder, a leaf from their hair, or touch their forearm gently.
3. They dress for your arrival
This is where women and men alike give themselves away: As soon as the object of desire is in sight, they dress up. Men adjust their shirt collars, correct the fit of their T-shirts and belts, and smooth out long sleeves. Women like to play with their hair, risk a quick glance in the mirror, and also make final corrections to their clothing. These gestures are, of course, based on the desire to appear in the best possible light for our object of desire. Good appearance as a clear starting advantage in the search for a partner. Whoever saw a peacock display their feathers or a lion shake his mane won’t doubt the origins of this habit for humans.
4. They seek your proximity
Of course, you want to spend as much time as possible near your beloved. If that's not possible, opportunities are sought and found. Chance encounters on the way to or from work are among them, as are arranging breaks and inventing excuses to meet. Bringing over books you've talked about counts as much as offering to help with chores or study projects. Of course, sometimes it can just be coincidence that you're always in the same place at the same time. But as the saying goes, coincidence is fate's good fortune.
5. Their behavior changes when you're around
People are relaxed and casual when they feel unobserved and under no pressure. As soon as someone they want to impress enters the stage, this changes abruptly: they adopt an upright posture, will make room for them and quickly optimize their appearance. But they also pay more attention to their choice of words, and above all want to let you have your say. Their gaze is glued to you, and from the moment you appear, you are the sun in their universe. Those who tend to snappy sayings or pointed jokes will suddenly want to come across quite adult and serious. Those who serve the group as solo entertainers now want to be taken seriously, but still get the full attention. However, it also works the other way around. Some people come up with quite curious and interesting performances in order to cast a spell on the beloved, occasionally making an idiot of themselves for this purpose seems a small price to pay for making you laugh.
6. You lift their spirits
Not only does their demeanor change abruptly when you take the stage, their mood rises as well. Watch how your opposite's facial expressions change. When you meet her or him, does the sun literally rise? Are you given a radiant smile or perhaps just a shy but clearly perceptible glow of joy? Maybe you even manage to turn someone who tends to be reserved into a happy person with your presence. We can control our feelings to a certain extent, but they cannot be suppressed in the long run. In any case, it is always a good sign when your presence lifts the mood. You are a welcome and good person to them.
7. Your body language is mirrored
This sign is especially clear when someone has a romantic or erotic interest in you. If you run your hand through your hair, and seconds later your counterpart does the same, your body language is being mirrored. You put your hand on your arm, and the person you're talking to does the exact same thing - mirrored again. If you walk side by side, your steps will eventually find themselves in complete synchronicity. This is where our subconscious mind desperately wants to get closer in contact with our beloved. We formally try to operate on the frequency of the other by creating as many similarities as possible.
Today’s Conclusion:
The desire for closeness has many faces. Whether we like it or not, our heart's desires are unfortunately not very well disguised by our bodies. Whether it's biology speaking here or feelings pushing to the surface that we can't hide, our body language betrays us time and time again. However, this knowledge can of course also give us the advantage. If we find a woman or a man attractive, we should simply pay attention to the few small signs to sound out our chances at least a little. Who finally dares take the first step is then only a question of determination and courage. That's it for today.