Warning Signs That Your Partner Is Cheating!
Statistics provide us with those clear facts that our heart and mind unfortunately do not always want to admit: In 4 out of 5 cases, partners cheat when the other half suspects something. So our feelings rarely deceive us in this sad context. Very few people are capable of believably lying to and cheating on those close to them over a long period of time. Thank God that is so, yet we tend very strongly to close our eyes to this one truth. Basically, of course, each person must decide for themselves whether or not they want to continue in this relationship. Anyway, we'll show you here 8 clear signs that your better half is warming another’s bed.
1. Your sex life is changing noticeably
An unmistakable barometer that reliably indicates the state of a relationship is the love life. Here, in the case of an affair, it can come to 2 extreme forms. She or he suddenly has no desire to have sex with you at all. What for? After all, there is now someone else for that. Or the exact opposite is the case. Some cheaters tend to overcompensate and suddenly can't get enough of their faithful soul at home. Who knows whether this is due to a guilty conscience or a subconscious fear of being caught out when the willingness to mate wanes?
2. Unusual expenditures accumulate
The clever or experienced cheaters know not to pay anything by credit card when their better half gets to see the bills. This is how many an affair has been discovered quickly and reliably. But keeping receipts and vouchers can also be the downfall of cheaters. If there is a joint account, conspicuous cash withdrawals should be a cause for concern. A third person in the bunch always means higher expenses. After all, a double life needs to be financed. If you have known each other for a long time in a partnership, the relationship to money is usually a constant. If this changes significantly, in most cases a new, expensive hobby on 2 legs is to blame.
3. Routine and everyday life change
Cheating takes time. Whether it's a hot affair or building a parallel relationship. These ambitions have to be accommodated somewhere in everyday life. Most people are creatures of habit and, with few exceptions, have the same temporal rhythm every day or at least most of the time. The famous overtime hours at work can occur. If they become the rule instead of the exception, one should become alert. The same applies, of course, when your partner suddenly starts exercising or “playing sports” overtime, new friends appear on the horizon that the partner at home has never heard of, or other deviations from the pattern emerge. For the vast majority of people, breaking out of the usual daily routine always requires a good reason. We only leave our comfort zone if something is waiting beyond it that is worth the effort and offers a real incentive.
4. You no longer connect with each other
If your conversations are limited to the bare essentials, if your better half is short-tempered and can no longer look you in the eye, something should smell fishy to you. We also instinctively feel it when our partners are not with us in thought. This constant drifting into a far away land is often caused by an affair. We can literally feel that they would prefer to be somewhere else at the moment and that our closeness seems annoying and unpleasant to them. Constant dissatisfaction and the urge to pick a fight are further indications that this partnership currently consists of more than 2 people.
5. Avoiding your specific questions
In 4 out of 5 cases, the cheated partners know about an affair. They may suppress the thought of it for a while, but most eventually get to the bottom of mysterious changes in their everyday relationship. Concrete questions about whether there is someone else are then almost always artfully circumnavigated, blocked or acknowledged with annoyed-sounding counter-questions. Even comments like "I'd like to have your imagination" or "What are you fabricating again" are in the majority of cases translated as "Yes, I'm cheating on you - sad, but true". Then making partners look stupid, doubting their sanity, or verbally belittling them are very typical reactions of people who have been caught doing something wrong but aren't man enough or woman enough to admit it.
6. He doesn't let his smartphone out of his sight
To some extent, yes, we've already gotten used to the fact that the majority of humanity conducts the anxieties of all relationships with their cell phones. But even here there are increases, which can be a clear indication that someone has something to hide. Men and women who even take their cell phones with them to the toilet and in the shower are not waiting just to win the lottery. Rather, they're afraid their better half might discover text or voice messages on it that aren't meant for them. It's pathetic and doesn't exactly testify to inner greatness to think that this behavior wouldn't catch the eye of an adult; secrets have always been and still are poison for any relationship. If you have to hide your laptop or cell phone from your partner's eyes, you don't have a trust problem, you simply don't have the potential to be a life person.
7. The exterior is more cared for
Take note if your partner suddenly wants to try a new look or undergoes a complete change from the hairdresser or suddenly starts to pay attention to diet and weight. If the bathroom and every mirror in the apartment are consulted more often than before, there is guaranteed to be someone behind this behavior they want to impress. Women then increasingly reach for more makeup, men devote themselves more intensively to their body care or even consider visiting the gym. It is unfortunately a truth recognized worldwide that we do not make ourselves beautiful and make special efforts for people whose hearts already belong to us. We regrettably put on the war paint and shining knight armor only for people who we have yet to conquer.
8. You suddenly become hard to reach
What is also clearly noticeable in everyday life is the sudden cell phone aversion of some partners. Those who used to answer every call and respond to every text message are suddenly giving us the cold shoulder. We neither know where our better halves are at the moment, nor with whom, and mostly this is exactly the crux and the cause of this unusual ghosting? In any case, we no longer seem to be important to them when we are denied the basic right of every relationship, communication.
Today’s Conclusion: Follow your intuition
It is unquestionably one of the most shattering realizations in your relationship when you are betrayed. No human being deserves to be deceived and taken for a fool in such a way, and sometimes for a long period of time. If your antennas suggest an affair to you, they have very good reasons for it and most of the time they are unfortunately right. That's it for today.