Secret Signs That He Likes YOU!

Eyes are there to look at, that's for sure. Until recently, it was not at all unseemly to ostentatiously eye women or even whistle after them, but society's view of blatant staring and "checking out" in public has changed dramatically. The dubious opinion that all women automatically regard men's stares as compliments is old news. However, our genes and our entire human biology have not yet arrived in the enlightened 21st century. Today, we'd like to talk about looks that men give us, specifically the good kind. How does a man who likes us, and who may even have already taken us into his heart, view us?

1. He looks you in the eye

Probably the most important indication that a man not only likes you, but really, really likes you, is his eye contact. Contrary to what you might think, studies have shown that a woman's face is the most attractive part of her. Men literally can't take their eyes off of it if they find it irresistibly beautiful and appealing in the truest sense of the word.

2. His eyes are constantly searching for you.

In a room full of people, you'll be able to tell the quickest if a man has genuine interest in you or not. After all, his protective instincts can't help but keep a constant eye on you. You might even feel his eyes on you, that's how intense this form of contact can be.

3. He winks at you

This sign can be a flirt signal, but it can also be just joking or even conspiratorial. Basically, it is one of the positive signals of our body language, as it immediately and without many words establishes a connection where seconds before there was none.

4. The body scan look

The practiced among men manage to quite discreetly scan the woman of their dreams. This scanning of the beloved is not a conscious act, but simply due to biology and the situation. Men simply can't get enough of women they love or desire. If the interest is mutual, these looks are a clear indication of male interest. If, on the other hand, we feel we are being ogled and watched, our body is clearly saying "No, thank you" to these advances.

5. The mirror look

We use body language in flirting much more often than our native language. Even when we are silent, our body blithely chats away without us being able to stop it. Men also fall victim to this unconscious mechanism when they sit across from a woman they like. Their gaze then catches her body language. This is mirrored in an instant. If the woman crosses her arms in front of her upper body, the man quickly does the same.

6. The raised eyebrow

Researchers agree that our eyebrows don't just serve the purpose of protecting our sensitive eyes from sweat beading off our foreheads. Raising our eyebrows opens up our gaze while also furrowing our brow. Professor Javid Sadr, a neuroscientist at the University of Lethbridge in Canada takes his facial expression studies even a step further. He is convinced that the eyebrows are the most expressive part of our face. If we want to decipher emotions, we should rely on them, because the brows never lie.

7. Dilated pupils

If we look deeply into a man's eyes and his pupils dilate more and more, there is clearly interest in us on their part. Whether this is only sexual or holistic, however, cannot be immediately inferred from this.

8. Length makes a difference

We are of course talking about eye contact here. If a man is already flirting with you, he can look you in the eyes to his heart's content. If, on the other hand, you don't know each other yet or have just been introduced, the 3-3 second rule applies. Anything over that is spontaneously perceived as impolite, our genes even locate a threat.

9. Don't be blinded by colors

Researcher Karel Kleisner of Charles University in Prague found in a study that men with brown eyes appear more trustworthy than men with blue eyes.

10. Batting your eyelashes

This gesture is actually typically female and, according to evolutionary researchers, is supposed to signal submissiveness. That's why it still goes down so well with men today. If a man uses this technique, he probably wants to demonstrate his devotion to you.

11. His gaze seeks yours

When talking to several people at a table or in a group, it can happen that a man repeatedly lets his gaze wander in your direction. This is a clear sign of affection. He wants to gain more attention and at the same time arouse your interest.

12. Wet eyes speak of love

When romantic feelings boil over, it can cause tears in men's eyes as well. They aren't tears in the strict sense of the word, however.

13. Not blinking shows strength

Occasional blinking in conversation is only natural and is supposed to keep the eye moist and free of dust or dirt particles. However, if a man looks at you for minutes without blinking once, his genetic heritage from the Stone Age is demonstrating his strength and charisma to you. He has you in his sights and he wants you to feel safe with him.

14. He finds the tabletop fascinating

A bad sign during conversation with a man is when he does not direct his gaze in your direction, but even still finds the floor, his feet or the table top more exciting and interesting than you. Probably he remains seated only out of politeness.

15. Where is the escape route?

The next bad sign in flirting is definitely when the man is constantly looking at the door. The primal man in him is already programmed to escape and has the exit in sight at all times, rather than the woman sitting across from him. In his mind, he has long since said goodbye to this conversation. He is only waiting for a favorable opportunity.

16. Sideways glances

If a man is sitting next to you and would like to get much closer to you, he sometimes has no choice but to look sideways. This behavior is atypical and is therefore quickly noticed, since we are actually required to look ahead. Our eyes cannot turn 180 degrees to the left or right, which is why the neck and head must follow their desire.

17. Looking at the clock, the smartphone or the waitress

Basically, our gaze follows our target. If you are on a date with a man who looks everywhere but at you and in your eyes, throw the fish back into the sea. Your fishing rod is too good for him.

Today's Conclusion: Let's look truth in the eye

We still operate at a Stone Age level in everyday life and especially in romantic or erotic matters, whether we like it or not. This now includes playing out the crowd for potential mating partners to fulfill Mother Nature's ultimate mandate. Total reproduction at every opportunity. The first step in this direction takes place through our eyes. Only when we like what we see do we look further. That's it for today.