People Who Like to Be Alone Have These 6 Wonderful Qualities.
Many prejudices and misconceptions surround people who prefer to spend their time alone. They are often seen as introverted, strange, difficult or not socially acceptable. None of this does justice to the true motivations behind why each and every one of these modern hermits has chosen their preferred lifestyle. The foundation for a life as a party animal or lone wolf is undoubtedly laid by our childhood. Some people are born loners in the truest sense of the word. Still others need the sociable hustle and bustle around them. Under no circumstances is preferred solitude to be confused with loneliness. These two states are in completely different dimensions. Those who enjoy being alone do not know the feeling of loneliness at all. On the other hand, we can feel incredibly lonely and abandoned even when surrounded by hundreds of good-humored people. In any case, there are many advantages to navigating life alone. In this article, we'll show you that being by yourself also brings with it a few wonderful character traits.
1. Empathy is your strength
Indulging in peace and complete seclusion from the noisy and demanding world outside actually brings with it one thing you wouldn't expect from lone wolves: empathy. Their abundance of time alone allows them to develop a sharpened eye for their surroundings. Those who have plenty of time to think are also more likely to make the effort to see their contemporaries as they really are. The superficial exchange of a hectic togetherness then gives way to a balanced assessment. Thus, loners still manage to get to know their social contacts better, even though they may not let them into their quiet lives often or for long periods of time. Nevertheless, they develop more compassion and understanding for others than some social butterflies who, in the end, only want to hear themselves talk and show off their good side.
2. You know your worth
It is already a sign of true greatness to be completely enough for oneself as a society. Modern hermits need neither the applause nor the okay or green light from outside. They consistently go their own way and are usually more successful than average in everything they do. This self-image and healthy relationship with their own ego means that outsiders will always have a hard time getting a foot in that door. Those who are good at being alone simply don't need positive reinforcement from third parties. Neither praise nor compliments are lacking for these people. They pat themselves on the back, which is confirmation enough. Moreover, the idyllic life on one's own private island means that one has no choice but to acquire all kinds of skills. The species-appropriate deluging of fat house spiders is just as much a part of this as changing light bulbs and neon tubes or assembling one or another piece of furniture single-handedly. If you gradually improve yourself and your talents in this way, you can't help but be genuinely impressed with yourself at some point.
3. You are open-minded and receptive to new ideas
Contrary to popular belief, passionate loners are not cranky nerds who only want to simmer in their own brew and don't dare to think outside the box for a second. Those who live alone have more time at their disposal, which should be used wisely. Laziness and the senseless killing of valuable time do not exist in the universe of the social solo dancers. They enjoy cultivating and nurturing their numerous interests far too much for that. Their minds want to be constantly fed with innovative approaches that ensure the expansion of their personal horizons. Loners love to learn new languages, handicraft skills or creative work. There are many reasons why boredom is guaranteed never to enter their self-imposed solitary confinement.
4. You are very self-confident
Those who know that they can effortlessly cope with their daily lives as lone warriors and do not need anyone to strengthen them mentally or lift them up emotionally have everything they need for a good life. After all, we have the most important relationship of our lives with ourselves. If everything fits in this regard and there are no discrepancies, there is no reason for self-doubt. Once you have successfully completed this liberation, there is virtually no stopping you. It is incredibly uplifting and almost intoxicating to be the only person you will ever really need and who will always be there. Self-confidence is something that only we can give ourselves as a gift. No one can slip a coupon for it under our door or adore a colorful bouquet of it. Even the most radiant solo entertainers and the most extroverted and charismatic party people spend their lives searching in vain for the mysterious source that offers self-confidence to-go.
5. Your boundaries are clearly defined
If there's one thing lone wolves do brilliantly, it's define their personal boundaries. Their motto might be: Up to here and no further. Hardly anyone, for example, is regularly invited into their sacred halls, meaning their own 4 walls. This temple is reserved only for them and must not be desecrated by disturbances such as other people. However, if you belong to the circle of these chosen people, you better respect the house rules and all unwritten laws of hospitality. One will hardly manage, moreover, to persuade the solitary members of humankind to engage in activities that do not interest them. No is a legitimate and complete answer in their insular world, and one that their fellow human beings often get to hear from them. But they have it easy when it comes to giving out rejections. If this should offend anyone, there is no need to fear the consequences.
6. You are loyal
Anyone who can be alone and not miss anything or anyone could actually afford the luxury of not being loyal. Surprisingly, the exact opposite is the case. These people value themselves and the few other people they allow into their lives very highly. When they feel happy and valued, they will support their inner circle in every way. They show loyalty in all aspects of life, whether it is professional or romantic relationships and friendships. But there is another reason for the loyalty of loners. If you don't need anyone by your side, you can choose your environment. Therefore, it will never happen to a loner that fake friends or toxic people move into their lives. Those who stand up to their test of quality can enjoy the rating of "especially valuable".
Today's Conclusion: Welcome to the Dream Team
If you are afraid of loneliness, you should try being alone as soon as possible. Getting along on your own is the surest retirement plan if you don't want to wither away in social isolation. One person will always be there for you when everyone else around you has died or moved away, and that is you. So, practice being alone well in advance. You can only benefit from this unique gift. Actor Robin Williams left us these lines about it: "I used to think the worst thing that could happen in life was to end up all alone. It isn't. The worst thing is to end up being with people who make you feel alone." That's it for today.