The older we get, the more we realize how complex life is. The world is not black and white and does not consist of good and evil. It is often difficult to make the right decision. Some situations seem almost hopeless, and there seems to be no real solution in sight.

Sometimes we simply close our eyes to the truth because it would hurt us too much. This is for self-protection. Nevertheless, we have to realize that we cannot run away from the harsh reality. Some things are what they are, even if we wish they were not. In this article we present to you uncomfortable truths that everyone must accept.

1. Change is something you can only bring about yourself

Again and again we try to change other people or we wait for something to change in our lives. However, you should be aware that only you are able to change yourself. You yourself are responsible for your happiness in life and your development, so it is important that you recognize your weaknesses and discard negative behaviors.

Only with awareness of the things that do not work well can you manage to avoid mistakes in the future. Others may have been aware of your weaknesses for a long time, and they may have realized that you have taken a wrong path. But in order for something to change, it is necessary to admit it to yourself.

2. You are the one who ends things

There are always phases in life when things don't go smoothly. Relationships end, you lose your job, and a loved one passes away. No matter what your experience is and how traumatizing it is, you have to realize that it is only you who can get you out of that hole, only you can heal yourself.

You simply have to come to terms with certain situations in life in order to be able to look forward, otherwise the pain will take over and dominate your everyday life. Your life will come to a standstill, and you will no longer be able to look forward. Starting a new phase of your life is important for your inner peace, and it is only you who can take this step.

3. Take risks

Not everyone has the same willingness to take risks. Some people take big risks in their lives, while others hesitate before taking any further step and think about their actions three times. But it's very important to take risks sometimes. If you live in constant fear of making mistakes or getting hurt, you will miss out on many things in your life and deny yourself many beautiful moments.

If you want to be successful, you also have to make mistakes and sometimes fall deep before you get back up and succeed again. This is true in many different areas of life. Before you find great love, you will surely experience some heartache and bad breakups. All the important things in life like love, friendship and career are closely related to taking risks.

If you want to experience adventure and passion, you can't do that without taking risks either. If you don't take risks, you will forever be asking the questions of what if, and regretting what you didn't do and try.

4. Recognize when it's no longer worth fighting for.

Basically, it's good to fight for things in your life. However, you also need to know when enough is enough and when it's time to move on. Giving things up can also be good. You need to recognize when to change direction and leave a negative situation behind. This can save you a lot of pain.

So think carefully about which fight is really worth fighting and at what point you'd better give up. Don't give up because the road is too rocky, but because it makes you unhappy. You deserve better. Some things in life just have a time limit and are just over at some point.

5. Let people go

One of the hardest experiences in life is letting people go. But sometimes you have to realize that it's over and you no longer have the importance to other people that they have to you. People who really care about you would show this and also indicate it with their behavior. So don't waste your time with people who are no longer worth fighting for.

You can't force someone to be friends or in a relationship with you. Feelings cannot be controlled. Realizing this is painful, but it is still an integral part of our lives. Not every person will be with you for your entire life. You don't deserve to be taken for granted and sell yourself short. You should surround yourself with the people who truly love and appreciate you.

6. Life is not all beautiful

How nice it would be if we were happy every day. However, happiness does not accompany us every day of our lives. It is also not waiting for us, hoping maybe there is a future somewhere. You have to understand that happiness is not to a fixed event or a certain time. Happiness is not a destination, but a journey.

If you are not happy right now in this moment, you will not be happy in another place. You must realize that happiness and contentment are not waiting for you in a particular place, and you don't have to find happiness first. Be grateful for the things you have and for the life you lead. Only when you are content with that can you manage to be truly joyful and happy and realize happiness

7. You must first love yourself before you can love someone else

This realization may sound harsh, but it is true. Only when you are at peace with yourself and satisfied with what you have and who you are, can you truly love someone else and enjoy that love. A relationship can seem perfect, but it will never fill the void that exists within yourself if you do not love yourself.

A good relationship with yourself is the cornerstone. It is built on several pillars, which are honesty, acceptance, knowledge and compassion. In the worst case, you can even destroy your relationship through a lack of self-love, plunging you into dependency and insecurity.

Today’s Conclusion:

If you keep in mind the facts we just mentioned, you will see that they are true and that you need to find a way to deal with them and live with them. Always be honest with yourself and stand by your feelings and opinions, do not remain in hopeless situations and do not unnecessarily ignore problems. This means stagnation in your life. At the end of the day, the uncomfortable truth is still better than the comfortable lie. That's it for today.

Uncomfortable Truths That EVERYONE Must Accept!